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 If you are feeling overwhelmed and anxious you’re not alone. This is a time of unrest and uncertainty for most people in the world. No matter how you feel about the status of your life, wake up each day and be thankful that you are alive. Someone, somewhere else is fighting just to survive.

Look at life with a grateful heart and spend time with people who make you feel good. Make it a daily habit to sit still and meditate. Spend time by yourself and express your feelings in a journal. Do some sort of activity everyday to move your body. It can be yoga, dance, or just a walk around your neighborhood. When you exercise, your body releases endorphins, which triggers a positive feeling. You will learn to love it so much that you will rarely miss a workout. Life is all about ups and downs, this is a fact and it doesn’t get better, you get better. Pay attention to the words that you use both to yourself and to others.Let go of what you can’t control, work on your reactions, that is something you can control.

Self Talk

Our experiences influence the trajectory of our lives. The parents we have, the friends we make, and the thoughts we have about ourselves and about others. Sometimes we keep repeating the same patterns in life. You may have friendships that end up hurting you over and over again, relationships that end up with the same negative results. If you step back and notice that you are going through the same type of pattern in life, making the same decisions and ending up making the same mistakes, ask yourself what it is that you are supposed to learn?

Until you learn the lesson you are meant to learn, you will continue to be on the same exact same path.  One of the things that we need to have in order to be happy and whole is self-love. You need to know that you are worthy of a good life, that includes a comfortable home, great relationships, friends who are there for you. You deserve to do something in life that motivates you and gives you a purpose.

One of the best ways to work on self-love is to pay attention to your thoughts. What you tell yourself is far more impactful in your life than anything else. I recently was listening to a podcast, the host said something that really made me stop and pay attention. He said, “what your mind repeats is what your mind believes”. So, when you keep repeating negative thoughts about yourself you start to believe it. Only you can be the change you want to see and that starts by paying attention to your self-talk.

Replace Fear with Gratitude

In this time of fear and uncertainty, I want to express my gratitude. I’m grateful that I live in a safe country, in a comfortable home, with plenty of food in my fridge and pantry. I’m grateful that my family and I are healthy and that we have access to good doctors and hospitals. There are people all over the world, and right here in the United States without many of these benefits. Right now, we are all in fear of this pandemic, and fear spreads faster and wider than any virus. Fear will cause anxiety, which will cause stress and that will cause you harm in the end. All we can do is be vigilant and do what experts say, keep your distance from others. Stay home and be grateful.

During this time, we get to enjoy the company of our families. We need to be present and calm. Our uncertainty and fear overflows to our children, for them and for ourselves we need to focus on the good and practice gratitude. Take advantage of this time and teach your children to meditate, practice mindfulness, get organized, learn to cook, sketch, or just read a book or two. Take a walk as a family, watch movies together, take an online course and have virtual discussions with friends and family.

We are lucky enough to have the ability to see and communicate with one another. It can be reassuring to be together virtually. Recently I saw a birthday video that was created for a close friend of mine. It was messages from her loved ones about what an amazingly positive source of love she is to them. How wonderful that they were able to extend their love and celebrate her birthday virtually.

Don’t listen to people who believe it’s the end of the world. Choose to see the positive in your situation. Do whatever you can to feel in control of the situation, like frequent hand-washing. Boost your immune system with healthy habits and activities, such as regular exercise. Stock up on food just in case the authorities order you to stay indoors for a while. That’s all you can do. You can choose to see the glass half empty or half full. Your choice. Be safe and grateful. Thank you for reading my perspective.

Essential Oils 101

If you’ve never used essential oils, it can be somewhat overwhelming. A friend of mine recently asked me to give her a list of my “go to” essential oils, so this is for her and for those of you who want to learn how to use them. Here are four essential oils that I recommend you start with.

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1) Lemon, The cleansing, purifying, and invigorating properties of Lemon make it one of the most versatile oils, it can be added to your diffuser to freshen up a room. Lemon essential oil is used in many natural cleaner recipes as well as beauty product recipes. You can always add a drop to your water for taste and health benefits. And, it’s probably most well known for removing sticky residue. There are so many ways to use this essential oil but I’ll focus on just a few.

Directions for Use

Diffusion: Use three to four drops in the diffuser of your choice.
Internal use: Dilute one drop in 4 fl. oz. of liquid.
Topical use: Apply one to two drops to desired area. Dilute with Fractionated Coconut Oil to minimize any skin sensitivity.

You can use a drop or two of lemon essential oil on a microfiber cloth to clean the surface of your phone.

Add 5 drops of lemon essential oil to a 4 ounce glass spray bottle filled with water and you can clean tables countertops and all other surfaces.

Add a few drops of lemon oil to a spray bottle and fill it with olive oil, spray to clean, protect and shine wood.

Add a few drops to a soft cloth to polish your tarnished silver or other metals.

Add a few drops to your to a box of baking soda and place in the fridge as a deodorizer.

Add a few drops to a basin of water to wash away chemicals and grim from produce.

Add a few drops to your diffuser to uplift your mood.

2) Frankincense is called the king of essential oils. That’s because It has so many health and wellness benefits. It’s great for your skin and hair. Frankincense is also used in a lot of beauty products, and supports your immune system.

Directions for Use

Diffusion: Use three to four drops in the diffuser of your choice for relaxation or for your morning yoga practice.
Internal use: A drop of Frankincense under your tongue to promote overall wellness.
Topical use: Apply one to two drops to your moisturizer to give your skin an extra boost.

If you are feeling under pressure, you can use a drop or two of Frankincense essential oil along with fractionated coconut oil and rub it to the bottoms of your feet.

Use as toner by putting a few drops of Frankincense in 11/2 oz of water and use a cotton ball to refresh skin and tighten pores.

Apply to cuticles and nail beds to maintain healthy looking fingernails.

It can help with acne, just take one tablespoon of Jojoba oil mix 2 to 3 drops of Frankincense essential oil with it, apply it twice a day on the area concerned.

Take a tablespoon of Argan oil add a 2-3 drops of Frankincense oil and apply it to your skin twice a day . This helps tighten skin and reduce the appearance of pores.

Take one tablespoon of coconut oil and add 2-3 drops of Frankincense essential oil and apply to scars. It works on the cellular level to repair damaged skin cells and stimulate the healthy regeneration of new cells to fade away scars and dark spots.

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3) Lavender is probably my favorite essential oil. Not only does it smell amazing, it’s also great for inducing sleep, reducing anxiety and soothing skin irritations. It’s a must have for essential oil beginners!

Directions for Use

Diffusion: Use three to four drops in the diffuser for relaxation
Topical use: Apply one to two drops to your moisturizer for a stress-relieving massage.

Use with bath salts for a relaxing spa bathing experience

Lightly apply to soothe sun-exposed skin

Mix a drop or two with Fractionated coconut oil and apply to the bottoms of the feet of a restless or agitated child

Use to calm and soothe occasional skin irritations by adding a few drops with a carrier oil like coconut oil.

Place a few drops on pillows to help induce sleep.

Calm sensitive skin and soothe pores after hair removal

Apply a few drops directly on rashes and insect bites

Apply a few drops to cuts, scratches and scrapes.

Put a few drops in your shampoo to help with dandruff, and use with Peppermint essential oil for a healthy scalp massage

Add to lotion for a stress-relieving hand massage

Place a few drops to on cloth or laundry dryer sheet to freshen laundry scent and naturally deodorize.

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4) Peppermint is another great essential oil to have in the house, it can be used aromatically, topically and internally. It’s well known for helping with allergy, digestive and energy issues. I love to add a drop in my water for a little energy boost and it tastes great.

Directions for Use

Diffusion: Use three to four drops in the diffuser of your choice.
Internal use: A drop of Peppermint essential oil in 4 fl ounces of water.
Topical use: Apply one to two drops with fractionated coconut oil to dilute it.

Use a drop of peppermint essential oil with lemon in water for a healthy refreshing mouth rinse.

Dilute with a carrier oil and rub on your stomach to relief occasional stomach discomfort, or put a drop your in water and drink it.

You can also use it topically with a carrier oil to get relief from itching, muscle pain, and headaches.

I’ve been using essential oil for the past eight years and I’ve learned that all essential oils are not alike. So don’t be fooled, many oils being sold today are synthetic. Your body processes synthetic oils as a toxin so that’s not what you want. Please do your research before purchasing essential oils.

If you need any help I would be glad to share what I know.

Cautions

Possible skin sensitivity. Keep out of reach of children. If you are pregnant, nursing, or under a doctor’s care, consult your physician. Avoid contact with eyes, inner ears, and sensitive areas.

State of Mind

A few days ago my daughter and I landed at JFK after traveling through four countries in Europe. It was a wonderful trip, a beautiful time reconnecting with family, meeting ones we had never met, and bonding with one another.

My husband met up with us for a week of Paris and London, his arrival was the icing on the cake for our daughter!

The trip was both magnificent and educational for my daughter. She was able to practice her Farsi with family, pick up some Italian and French, as well as learn a bit more about art and history by visiting museums. I am fully aware of how fortunate we are to be able to travel.

Yet, returning home was bittersweet. I have always been able to count on my parents for both the big and little things in life such as picking us up at the airport. When we landed I found myself searching the airport for my father’s face, but he was not there, and it hit me that he will never be there for us again. We took a cab home, my mother was always the first who would call when we returned home from vacation, this time, our house was silent. She too would never be there to call me again, a devastating realization. Needless to say it was a rough first day home, I turned in early. The next day I decided to put my focus on my vegetable garden, because being in nature always makes me feel peaceful and close to my source. I collected an abundant amount of herbs and vegetables from my garden.

I found myself smiling and having a feeling of abundance. I felt relief and joy which lasted for a bit but then the wave of sadness came back. Right then, I had an awakening, I knew that I would always experience waves of sadness. And like always, I knew that I would always fight it by looking on the brighter side of life, the same way my parents survived all that they lost.

If you have feelings of sadness taking over, just know that you are not alone, things will get better, you will be ok. Just keep on moving forward doing things that bring you joy and help someone else. We rise by lifting others.

Say yes to Celery!

It’s the latest craze, and I’m all about it! I’m talking about juicing celery.

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I first read about the benefits of juicing celery in the book Medical Medium. Anthony William is a wildly popular Medium and Healer. His unprecedented accuracy and success rate as the Medical Medium have earned him the trust of millions across the world. He claims “celery juice is one of the most powerful and healing juices we can drink. ” Just 16oz of fresh organic celery juice every morning on an empty stomach can transform your health and digestion in as little as one week.” I really wanted to try it but just put it aside, thinking it’s just another fad I’ll follow, and then I’ll stop, not worth it, I thought.  Then I had a lovely family friend who kept putting up the benefits of celery juicing all over her Instagram feed, how much she loved it and how great she felt while on it. It kept getting my attention, another friend tried it, inspired by the same friend @houseofhusina  and loved it. Please do follow @houseofhusina, she has amazing recipe’s and other interesting and healthy information.

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From what I’ve read, celery juice helps to purify the blood stream, clear up skin problems, aid in digestion, reduce blood pressure. migraines, fatigue, autoimmune illnesses, brain fog, and hundreds of others. It’s also rich in Vitamin A, Iron, Magnesium, Celery juice is a well known diuretic with the ability to flush toxins out of the body. Sounds like some pretty powerful stuff, right? I was pretty much sold after reading up on it. As per the Medical Medium, I drink 16 oz of fresh, organic celery juice first thing in the morning, on an empty stomach. I’ve been juicing it for a couple of months now. Here’s what happened…

It really did help with digestion

Celery is rich in organic sodium which helps to increase the stomach acid, which in turn primes you for easy digestion. My digestion has never been better.  

No Bloating

Good digestion equals no bloating!  Certian foods really made me feel bloated before juicing celery. I noticed that now I don’t have that problem.Having a\ flatter stomach is also a great benefit of drinking celery juice, not completely flat but flatter! That’s better than nothing.

Energy Boost

Because my digestion has improved, I have more energy. I feel energized throughout the day.

I’m sure I’ll see other positive changes as time goes on. In the meantime, it took me only a week to notice a difference. If you want to know more about celery juicing pick up a copy of the Medical Medium, Celery Juice, The Most Powerful Medicine of Our Time Healing Millions Worldwide by Anthony William. You can find it on amazon.

Try it out, you won’t regret it. Give it a week and let me know what you think. You’ll need a cold juice presser, by aicook. I bought it from amazon and it’s perfect! it’s easy to use and easy to clean. Happy Juicing.

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